Category: People

Utah, people working together! Utah, it’s a great place to be…

By , October 6, 2012 4:38 pm

If you haven’t heard the Utah state song, go here and it will get stuck in your head & every time you think of Utah you will find yourself singing, THIS IS THE PLACE!

This past weekend I went to Utah for my sister Amy’s baby Ruby’s blessing. I had an absolutely wonderful time and I think we can all pretty much agree that there is no cuter human alive than Ruby. Behold:

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Luckily, Amy sends me a daily pic of Ruby so I can get my fill.

One highlight was a darling bracelet my dad had custom made for tiny little Ruby.

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My grandma was able to come up from Tucson, so we got some four generation shots, which was a real treat.

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I got to go to the Red Iguana, Trio, the Garden restaurant on Temple Square in Salt lake, hang out with my family tons, see my dear friends Chris & Cherie’s baby Avery and I got enough Ruby cheek-squeezing in to last me until Christmas!

Que viva Ruby!

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Briana’s Birthday

By , May 7, 2012 10:13 am

I am terrible with birthdays. Pretty much the only birthday I remember is my own (it is a season, after all). Now I remember Neil’s because I have had to put it on enough forms that it sticks out in my mind. It’s also Pearl Harbor day. This is the one feature of Facebook that I think is actually useful: the birthday reminders. It tells you when all of your “friends” have a birthday.

I got a reminder that my dear friend Briana would have celebrated her 30th birthday yesterday.

It’s likely that I would not have remembered, had she still been alive, and all she would have received from me would be a Facebook message. But, her birthday hit me, even more than the anniversary of her death. Perhaps because as a midwife she celebrated so many first births.

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Briana midwife

Her midwife partner Cathy has started a project to honor her called The Briana Project to cherish her memory and spread her talents and ideas to women around the world. Please visit the site and donate if you can.

Cathy put our video we made of Breezer on the website so people could get a sense of her. It is one of the most precious things I’ve ever made. I am so glad we taped so much of her wisdom.

Briana’s Words, Briana’s Wisdom from Kate and Neil on Vimeo.

I am really missing her these days and this video is so nice to have to hear her voice and insights and laughter.

This is the last picture we took when I last saw Briana in Utah out for the filming of my documentary. I don’t know why we look like a couple of strangers sitting down on a couch together, but I love the look on Breezer’s face.

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I also love this one at our Wild West party where she is giving Katy a noogie.

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Briana's silly side comes out

And, she was always stunning… even in a silly hat.

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Bri helping me celebrate my birthday

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Happy birthday Briana. You are dearly loved and so, so sorely missed by so many. My heart feels heavy and a little bit emptier every time I realize, again, that you’re gone.

Back in Nairobi

By , March 17, 2012 12:36 am

Jesse and I just got back to Nairobi after a few day traveling with my dad and his students to Nakuru and Kisumu. The trip was really fun but also included lots of driving.

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Yesterday before leaving Kisumu we stopped at a small farm to see how they planted maize (corn). The farmer, a widow, was an amazing woman who worked ceaselessly to feed her family. It made me think of how easy my life is and how blessed I have been.

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In direct contrast to visiting the farm our night in Nakuru was one of opulence as we stayed in the Lion Nakuru Lodge. This place was overpriced and overcomfortable. They even put hot water bottles into our bed while we ate dinner even though it was not cold in the least.

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Now we are back in Nairobi staying with a dear friend from church. We are doing a little last-minute shopping and visiting and then will sadly be returning to the US and school (I am excited to see Kate again). The photo above is of Jesse holding Princess the baby of our friends Prince and Linda. The one bellow is of my favorite Kenyan foods, samosas. These are not like samosas from India that have a thick pastry crust, but are uniquely Kenyan with more of a springroll type crust.

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A 25-person interview, peeing on my feet, and proof of the universal appeal of Photobooth

By , March 15, 2012 12:51 am

Tuesday morning we got off to an early start and hopped into our van-taxi headed out to interviews in Consuelo, a Dominicans in a community a few hours away from the capital, about their issues receiving and using official documents because of their Haitian parents or grandparents.

The Dominican Republic changed their Constitution in 2010 to end Jus Solis (getting citizenship by being born in a place) and they have been retroactively taking the documents back of people who were born long before that law passed, and denying these Dominican citizens (with Haitian names or of Haitian descent) birth certificates, national IDs, passports, opportunity to attend high school and university, and many other benefits that come with an official state identity… even if they have long had documentation and have been in the Dominican Republic their entire lives.

Here’s a good place to read and learn more about this issue. Here is a podcast by Georgetown law on Dominican Statelessness. Think about how many things you need an ID to do. You can’t drive, go to college, use your credit card, get government documents or benefits, rent anything, start a bank account, work or do any of the hundreds of every day tasks that require having an official ID.

This is a photo of a birth certificate on woman I talked with showed me. The Registrar wrote on the back that her parents are undocumented Haitians. Why? No clue. There is no official procedure in place to do this. The Registrar just took it upon her/himself to add this. It gives some insight to the discriminatory nature of the registration process in the Dominican Republic. People of Haitian descent (or Dominicans with darker skin who may not even be Haitian) are singled out for poor treatment.

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The people we met with are Dominican, and were born in the Dominican Republic, so they are also not able to get Haitian citizenship. To get Haitian citizenship, they would have to travel back to Haiti within 2 years of being born and apply for a birth certificate there. Aside from being undesirable, since they are Dominicans, it is impossible for many of these families to travel and they risk leaving family members behind.

This situation illustrates the definition of the unfortunate term “stateless.” These Dominicans of Haitians descent have no nationality. Officially speaking, they are neither Dominican nor Haitian. We are cooperating with a local NGO, Reconoci.do, to document some cases and abuses these “stateless” people have experienced.

Unfortunately this scene repeated itself about 7 times on the way to do our interviews:

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The “taxi” was overheating because there was some kind of terrible leak and fluid was basically gushing out of the car. At several points along the journey the driver would pour fluid in and breathe into the car as if he was giving it mouth-to-mouth. However, the vehicular CPR was to no avail, and we had to call another taxi to come pick us up.

When we finally arrived in the neighborhood and to the church where we conducted the interviews, we were almost 2 hours late.

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Many people had been waiting several hours for us to come. I was a bit frazzled from the harrowing taxi journey. There were about 25 people waiting to be interviewed. We tried to make a quick game-plan as a group. In what seemed to be a series of unfortunate events I was somehow left alone with another student who does not speak Spanish to interview this group while the rest of the law students took off for another town.

So:

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I busted out my laptop & gave a group interview the best shot I could. At certain points I was asking group questions like, “Raise your hand if you have one parent who is Dominican.” It was very loosely organized chaos, but they all wanted their stories to be heard and they had a lot of patience with me. I got the names and basic information of everyone and tried my best to get important data on them all. They were amazingly kind and forgiving of the slow process.

After we finished at the church, a few of the girls took me to their house for lunch. Their hospitality was so generous and I was grateful for the rest and a meal! Unfortunately I have the bladder of a two-year old child and have to pee about every 15 minutes. Their bathroom is a space in the back where squat and pee on the bare ground. Also quite unfortunate was my lack of cultural competency in this area. Despite my best efforts I ended up splashing my feet twice. They must have thought I was quite inept.

I was totally exhausted by the end of the day. This International Human Rights fieldwork is harder than you think! Or maybe you already think it’s hard.  In which case you are right as (afternoon Dominican) rain.

Today we went back to the same community, but I recruited several more people to help with the interviews there and things went much more smoothly and was slightly less chaotic.

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After finishing in Consuelo, we went out to a Batey, which is a small community for plantation workers. Here is a photoblog about the Bateys and some of the people affected by discriminatory application of the laws here.

There we were able to interview more people. We were able to talk to some people with very compelling stories. Traditionally, people of Haitian descent work on the plantations (as the Dominican government encourages them to come work the fields with temporary work cards), and these are some of the areas most directly hit by “statelessness.”

After we finished the interviews all of the kids wanted to play games on my laptop. Unfortunately I am the most boring laptop of user of all time & I don’t even know if there are any games on my laptop. If there are I don’t know how to access them. LUCKILY I found this children’s book I had downloaded to my computer that a friend of a friend wrote and illustrated. AshMae saved the day! They read it over & over and loved screaming out the names of each animal as it came up on the screen.

After we had several go-rounds with “A Bunch of Friendly Animals” I busted out Photobooth. This was a genius move, if I do say so myself, and they were entertained for a good solid 45 minutes. The universal appeal of ridiculous pictures was made manifest.

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Merry Christmas y'all!

By , December 24, 2011 8:29 pm

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Birthday Cakes

By , December 7, 2011 3:08 pm

We started of Neil’s day of birth at the Silver Diner with some fine tasting birthday pan-cakes.
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Came home to a surprise gift from my mother:
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Neil’s favorite 25 year aged balsamic vinegar. Which, as you can see, he loves.
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Then, of course, we had to head to Pie Gourmet the absolutely best thing about our town. It is a store that has exclusively sold pies since the 1950s. THE most DELICIOUS pies on earth. And, since we all know pie is far superior to cake in every way, that is really saying something.
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And, I would be remiss not to share this fluke pic when I was trying to take a cute shot of us both with our pie.
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Happy Birthday Neil YOU ARE THE ABSOLUTE BEST. BETTER THAN ALL THE REST!!!!!
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How can you not love this man!??!!??
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Giving thanks for an amazing gift

By , November 24, 2011 7:34 am

My mother-in-law whipped this quilt up out of t-shirts Neil & I have saved over the years. She brought it out here to DC for Thanksgiving. It is a-mazing.

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Each block has memories.

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She quilted it using rainbow thread.

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I love how they fit together. This woman is an artist!

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I never imagined it would look so absolutely great.

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I am so grateful for such a special quilt!

Birthday Season part deux

By , October 25, 2011 7:28 pm

The good times continue to roll around here due to: 1) My mom sending me this awesome surprise cardigan for my b-diddy 2) Neil being obsessed with color filters on his remote flash aka MORE GLAMOUR SHOTS!

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Celbrating labor

By , September 10, 2011 10:07 pm

We started off Labor Day weekend going to a protest against the proposed Keystone XL pipeline taking material from the Tar Sands in Canada to be refined in Texas.

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245 people were arrested in front of the White House that day. (not us, luckily… would have put a real damper on the weekend :)

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Then we went up to Philadelphia to see Ash’s play at the Philly Fringe Fest. It was an amazing multi-media approach to women’s grief & stories. I have never heard someone made sadness and anger sound so beautiful.

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Lucky for you Utahns, this one-woman-show will be performed in Utah soon. Don’t miss it!

While in Philly we also went to the a-mazing Magic Gardens.This is an amazing space totally covered in glass/ceramic murals by mosaicist Isaiah Zagar.

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If you are wondering what our future home will look like, look no further:

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Then we went to Delaware to camp & go to the beach with Jesse, Laura & JUNE!

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Her favorite parts were looking at the stars at night and saying , “wow,” marshmallows & taking a nap with uncle Neil on the beach.

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When she finally woke up from her nap she got a few minutes to play in the sand before we had to go. She meticulously drew lines in the sand with one finger.

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My favorite part was eating french fries & key-lime-pie-dipped-in-chocolate on a stick on the beach.

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Rockabye Frida

By , June 15, 2011 4:43 pm

Lily

Anne sent me this pic of our niece Lily playing with the doll we gave her for her birthday. It’s a Little Thinkers Frida Kahlo doll. The unibrow is amazing.

We also got her a Jane Addams doll at the Hull House in Chicago. It is priceless.

Barbies are dead!

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